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Welcome! I’m Jessica, a couples therapist and relationship coach with over 10 years of experience helping couples navigate relationship challenges. In this podcast, we focus on building stronger, more loving connections by tackling common issues like communication struggles, trust problems, loneliness, and the need for appreciation, intimacy, and connection. We dive deep into the world of love consciousness and its link to spirituality, exploring practical ways to connect with your higher power through meditation and self-help techniques. Each episode sheds light on barriers to love consciousness—such as past trauma and internal struggles—that make forgiveness and love challenging. My goal is to encourage you to become a relationship visionary, someone who sees their relationship as a higher purpose and strives to ensure both partners feel valued and connected. I discuss overcoming challenges and creating a relationship where both partners are respected and understood. Join me on this transformative journey to better relationships. Let’s work together to cultivate love and connection in your life. Subscribe now and start your path to a more conscious and loving relationship.
Episodes

Friday Nov 01, 2024
Episode 24: How to Get an Apology from Your Partner
Friday Nov 01, 2024
Friday Nov 01, 2024
Ever been left with an “I’m sorry” that feels hollow?
Sometimes, a quick apology doesn’t really address the hurt, leaving you feeling even more disconnected. I
n this episode, we’ll explore why your communication might be missing the mark—and how you can hit a bullseye to reach a better understanding. I’ll share insights on expressing yourself in ways that move past your partner’s avoidance, helping you connect rather than clash.
If you’re dealing with a partner who tends to shut down or you’re struggling with your own reactions, episode 13 is a must-listen for managing those tough conversations with calm and clarity. In this episode, I also share real examples, including my own lesson in working as a team through challenging moments.
Looking to strengthen your communication skills? Check out our 7 Day Relationship Reboot for a step-by-step guide to help you connect more deeply and minimize the need for apologies altogether.
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Friday Oct 25, 2024
Friday Oct 25, 2024
In this episode, we address the two biggest issues couples face when it comes to relationship repair—doing nothing and not knowing what to do. I’ll share the good news and the bad news.
The bad?
If you don’t address these issues, your relationship could suffer irreparable damage.
The good? I’ll provide practical guidance to help you take the first step.
Using real-life examples from breakthrough sessions, we explore the consequences of inaction, the power of resistance, and the mindset needed to overcome blame and take positive action. I’ll share the Rusty Bike Analogy to highlight the importance of maintenance in relationships and why waiting for problems to fix themselves only worsens the situation.
If you're unsure about where to start, don't worry. I’ll guide you through the initial steps to turn things around, and I’ve even created a downloadable guide to help you warm up the relationship, just like preparing for a run. Tune in for practical tips and avoid the dangers of staying stuck!
Here's my quick-start guide— ‘The 7-Day Relationship Reboot’—guaranteed to help you make real changes in less than a week. Grab it and start transforming your relationship today.
https://couplesspeak.com/relationship-reboot/
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Friday Oct 18, 2024
Episode 22: How to Set Boundaries That Stop Fights and Improve Communication
Friday Oct 18, 2024
Friday Oct 18, 2024

Friday Oct 11, 2024
Episode 21: How to Avoid and Stop Fights with Your Partner
Friday Oct 11, 2024
Friday Oct 11, 2024
In this episode, I get real and dive deep into how to avoid and stop fights with your partner, sharing one powerful phrase that can get you out of heated moments fast. Relationships are built on communication, but when things go wrong, misunderstandings can turn small issues into massive problems. I also get a little emotional when sharing a personal story, so be ready for some vulnerability.
If you’ve been searching for ways to reduce conflict, communicate more clearly, or stop the cycle of constant arguments, this episode is for you.
Why You Should Tune In:
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You’re tired of walking on eggshells, afraid to say the wrong thing.
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You’ve experienced fights over things that seem to come out of nowhere.
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You’re ready to learn a new approach that doesn’t involve constant conflict and frustration.
Vulnerability Moment: I share a personal story where I faced my own struggles with communication and how I found a way through it. It’s a raw and real moment that might just hit home for you.
Listen Now to Discover:
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How to avoid future fights by applying these simple, practical tools.
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The phrase that works like a charm to calm tense situations.
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The importance of understanding your partner before jumping into a fight.
This episode is packed with insights and practical advice for anyone looking to create more peace in their relationship. Ready to make a change? Let’s get into it!
Relationship Reboot: https://couplesspeak.com/relationship-reboot/

Friday Oct 04, 2024
Episode 20: How to Problem Solve Issues: What is Really at Stake
Friday Oct 04, 2024
Friday Oct 04, 2024
If you're struggling to communicate and want to reboot your relationship without waiting on your partner to change, my 7-Day Relationship Reboot is designed for you. In just a week, you’ll learn simple, effective strategies to reconnect and improve communication—no couples therapy needed. Take the lead in your relationship today and start seeing results.
https://couplesspeak.com/relationship-reboot/
In this episode, we dive deep into the conflicts that arise in relationships when personal desires clash with deeper emotional needs. It’s not just about the tie, the trip, or feeling ignored—it’s about what’s truly at stake: connection, respect, and autonomy.
If you’ve ever found yourself in an argument over something small, but it escalated into something bigger, this episode is for you. Learn how to navigate these moments without triggering your partner and discover a three-phase process to problem-solve effectively.
Key Topics Discussed:
- What is Control in Relationships?
- How subtle behaviors and well-meaning actions can come off as controlling.
- The difference between influencing and controlling your partner.
- How to Identify When You’re Being Controlling
- Signs that you may be trying to control the situation without realizing it.
- Questions to ask yourself to avoid unintentionally stifling your partner’s autonomy.
- The Value of Speaking and Listening Without Jumping to Solutions
- Why it’s essential to define the problem first before rushing to solve it.
- Techniques for speaking and listening that foster connection, not conflict.
- The Three Phases of Problem-Solving in Relationships

Friday Sep 27, 2024
Episode 19 - The Best Relationship Advice You’ve Never Heard
Friday Sep 27, 2024
Friday Sep 27, 2024
We’ve all heard the typical relationship advice: “Say I love you every day,” “Never go to bed angry,” and other tips that sound nice but don’t always work. The truth is, many of us didn’t grow up hearing good relationship advice or having strong role models to follow.
In this episode, I share the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard. It all started at a bridal shower, where I overheard some surprising advice that really got me thinking. From there, I dive into why some of the most popular relationship tips fall flat, and what actually makes a lasting difference in building a strong connection.
Want to know how to restart positivity in your relationship? Do it in less than 7 days with my limited-time offer Relationship Breakthrough https://couplesspeak.com/relationship-reboot/.
Results guaranteed.
Episode Links:
Watch the Backwards Bike video:
https://youtu.be/MFzDaBzBlL0?si=63xoGr6fA62PhblQ
Listen to my episode on time-outs and emotional regulation
https://jessicamyersadams.podbean.com/e/episode-12-being-the-boss-of-your-emotions/

Monday Sep 23, 2024
Episode 18: Three Common Causes of Emotional Shutdown
Monday Sep 23, 2024
Monday Sep 23, 2024
Ever feel like your partner shuts down during important conversations? In this episode, we uncover the three most common causes of emotional shutdown in relationships. Discover how communication breakdown, unresolved stress, and unmet needs could be blocking the connection you crave. If you're tired of hitting a wall and want to create a more open, honest dialogue, this episode is for you!
Tune in to learn how to get your partner to listen without shutting down.
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Friday Sep 13, 2024
Friday Sep 13, 2024
In this episode, we explore how to break the cycle of frustration and disconnection in relationships, especially when communication feels blocked. If you've ever found yourself replaying past arguments or feeling stuck between wanting connection and needing to protect yourself, this episode is for you.
We’ll dig into the real reason many partners struggle to connect—hint, it’s not just communication issues. Learn how to handle the differences that create emotional distance and prevent deeper intimacy. We'll also cover strategies to manage frustration, anger, and other low-frequency emotions that can disrupt your connection.
Plus, we'll introduce you to a powerful mindset shift: when one person in a relationship struggles, both partners feel the impact. Tune in for actionable tips to break this cycle, elevate your emotional energy, and stay connected—even in tough moments.
Whether you're dealing with relationship challenges, frustration, or communication roadblocks, this episode will give you the tools to navigate it all and build a stronger, more resilient connection.
Sign up here for details on the 7-Day Relationship Reboot – limited-time offer!